Every activity of our lives is a communication of
a sort, but it is through a speech that man asserts his distinctiveness from
other forms of life. Business, social and personal satisfaction
depends heavily on the person's ability to communicate clearly to his
fellow persons. You can achieve 98 per cent of success with your excellent
speech and communication. But now in the international tensions and the fearful
environment, we need a channel of communication between people to be kept open.
Nowadays communication is vanishing day by day. Many problems are caused due to
lack of proper communication with each other in the public and private sector. better
you speak, more you can achieve success. Many of the people have this art while
most of the people figure out how to communicate with others?
Communicating with others is an art. The one who
acquires this skill is the winner forever in life. Let's discuss it from the
facts given in the book.
Communication is an art. It is an effective
established skilled art. Many people find it difficult. Many of the guys yet
don't know how to speak? You should be aware of the fact of How to speak
rather then what to speak?
Following are some of the facts
1. Learn from the Experience of the others.
This fact shares that experience is the best teacher.
You should learn the communication skills of the surrounding people.
2. Keep the goals before you
Set the communication goals.
3. Predetermine your mind to success
Keep on engaging in the self-motivating training about
the fact that yes you can too speak.
4.Discuss the fears with others
If you have a fear of speaking in the crowd, crash it
immediately. You should be more in the group of the people or friends which
will help you to remove this fear. Talk to the people; make yourself open with
the crowd. This will help you much more then you have ever thought.
5.Dress well and act in the confidence
As in today's world, the first impression is the last
impression.
6. While speaking in the public
don't mug anything. Speak only the facts about your studies.
7. Choose the subject which excites you to speak in
the public.
8. Be eager to share the talk with the listeners.
9. Develop the reserve power.
10. Be honest in the speech
11. Keep your conversation short and effective.
12. Make your conversation interactive.
13. Identify yourself in the audience
14. Share some real incidents
15. Your ideas should be in sequence
16. Be a hard persistent
These are some of the points which will surely
help everyone to speak effectively in the social and family life and achieve
the success ahead.
©
Kaushik
